Pros and Cons of Pubic Hair Removal

10 Pubic Hair Removal Tips

If you do decide to remove your pubic hair, here are some things to consider…

1. If you are shaving, it is always advised to use a single blade razor and shave in the direction of the hair growth. A cleaner shave is going to increase the risk of ingrown hairs and skin irritation.
2. Gently exfoliate the area to tease out hair from under the skin before they become a problem.
3. Consider trimming your pubic hair rather than shaving it. You can achieve a very neat and almost-bare look without all the nasty regrowth issues this way.
4. Make sure you moisturise using a non-perfumed moisturising cream, avoiding the genitals.
5. If you just want to tidy up your bikini-line get used to tweezing any stray hairs.
6. Always get a wax done by a professional.
7. Be very careful when using depilatory creams not to get the cream anywhere near your genitals because the area is far too sensitive and it will swell up big time!
8. Try anything once, but stand your ground if you’re not happy with the results or side effects – it’s your vagina!
9. If your boyfriend refuses to go down on you because you won’t shave, offer a compromise and tell him that you will shave if he shaves his balls! The itchy regrowth will give a taste of exactly why you don’t want to shave for him, and he will be more understanding.
10. If you want to stay completely natural always make sure you have a shower and know that you are completely fresh when your boyfriend gives you oral sex. Don’t give him a reason to be reluctant.

Regrowth nightmares and the horror of ingrown hairs… I decided to speak to a variety of females to get the bigger picture, and there are more women than you might think who suffer from irritation around their pubic mound and all of the mental stress that goes with it.
One woman described her shaving experiences to me. This woman has quite course hair that curls and she complains that every time she shaves around her pubic area it causes irritation. Sometimes she is lucky and if she leaves it alone it dies down, but most of the time she will end up with one or two ingrown hairs that end up causing her weeks of sexual insecurity, because the skin becomes infected and inflamed. There’s no way my man is going down there when I’m looking like that! She exclaims. I asked her why she bothers shaving, and she said it’s because her partner won’t go down on her otherwise.
It seems pretty strange to me that because of a guy’s sexual demands on his partner’s body, oral sex is either denied because he won’t go down unless she has shaved, or she won’t let him go down because she has shaved and caused ingrown hairs!
Another woman I spoke to told me that her partner prefers her waxed, so she suggested he pay for her beauty appointment every month. Well I’m doing it for him, so why should I have to pay for it? That mounts up you know! She said comically.
I asked her if she minds doing it, and she said, sure it was painful at first, but the results were nice, so I got used to it. Plus the more frequently you get it done the easier and less painful it is because the hair grows back finer and there is less and less to remove. I certainly like the idea of putting the bill at his door! Cost is probably not something he is thinking about when he states his preferences.
I was seeing a man who specifically told me that pubic hair didn’t bother him at all, and that in fact he prefers a woman not to shave because it is her naturalness and self-confidence that turns him on! Lucky me eh? I took full advantage of the freedom and I loved it!
The only good thing I can think of about hair removal is feeling fresher between the legs, especially during the summer months; not having to worry about people spotting stray hairs on your bikini line when going swimming; and feeling more confident about receiving oral sex because of your partner’s preferences and also your own personal hygiene hang-ups.
When I compare these things to the physical and mental stress many women go through removing pubic hair, it makes me wonder why the guy’s approval is so important. I mean, one girl has even described to me how she is so ashamed now of the marks and scars she has acquired from ingrown hair issues that she wears make-up on her pubic hair mound when she knows she will be receiving oral sex!
We need to love and respect our natural bodies more, and only do what we want to do, for ourselves. If you love and respect your natural body, and show that you are confident in yourself, then your man is likely to love and respect your body more too.